I have a problem and I do not know who to ask, my wife wants me to sleep with another woman and I don’t know how I feel about this. Of course, it’s every man’s fantasy, a threesome, but I am struggling to come to come to a decision.
We know the other woman well, she’s a close family friend and someone my wife trusts. She has done this before, slept with another friends husband and is happy to get involved with us. My fear is that my marriage will fall apart.
We have been together over 20 years, have 2 grown up children and I guess we are trying to spice things up.
But is this going too far?
My wife does not want to sleep with this woman, but she will be in the room watching. I mean it’s not every day your wife asks you to sleep with another woman. The conversation started when we were discussing past times, things we had shared, places we had visited. What things did we still want to do, did we both feel fulfilled with life.
Then came the “what’s your deepest fantasy?” question and I replied a threesome. And I can’t be the only bloke ever to think of it?
But I have never believed it would ever happen, it was just a daft fantasy, I mean would I even be able to perform in a situation staged that way?
Dare I do it?
My wife knows me inside out, what if this other woman doesn’t find me attractive? What if it just feels wrong? Will my marriage survive such a test?
I have read forums where couples go along to meet others, become swingers and remain happily married. My wife is keen for this to happen.
She wants me to sleep with another woman
My wife wants me to do it and I think I do too, I am just scared what will happen afterward.
I found this blog when I came across another blog post written here by a lady who let her boyfriend sleep with her friend, I let him have sex with another woman, but it didn’t have a happy ending and I don’t want the same to happen to us.
I have talked to my wife, we have discussed it in depth. It’s something we both want to try, experiment, I guess I am just scared.
Have you ever asked your husband to sleep with another woman or would you be happy to let him?
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