Anonymous Agony Aunt Blog Post
I have been with my partner for a little over three and a half years now but tonight he has told me that he doesn’t know if he wants to be with me anymore.
When we get on, we are a perfect couple, enjoying each other’s company and always have a laugh together, but we argue a lot too.
Shall I give him space or just leave him?
Surely he should know if he wants to be with me or not?
But I can’t just walk away, I love him very much.
I’d love to work it out with him, be able to sit down and talk and get to the bottom of the mess.
We end up arguing about petty things really like him going out all the time with his friends, while I am stuck at home.
There are times when he never bothers to even come and see me, sometimes it can feel as if I am doing all the giving and chasing.
It takes two to make a relationship work, right?
It hurts when he’s always making excuses not to come over to see me.
We don’t have any kids together but he has been amazing with my little girl. He has even looked after her for me when I had a few rare night out with friends.
I can’t fault him when we get on.
I want to believe he wants to be with me?
But the times we don’t are getting me down and now he says he doesn’t know if he wants to be with me anymore.
I don’t understand what I have done wrong.
He says it’s nothing I have done, that he just needs some space.
I can’t help but fear he may be cheating on me, I have no proof of this, I just can’t think of any other reason.
Should I give him the space he wants or should I be telling him I deserve better and won’t be sitting around waiting for him to decide if he wants to be with me or not?
Has anyone any advice please as I have no idea what to do or think at the minute?