The labour part did but go to plan up until the moment she was actually born, then it all went drastically wrong. When she was delivered I was rushed into theatre as I haemorrhaged badly and I had third-degree tears all round that needed stitching up. I needed 5 bags of blood when I came around.
I was 4 weeks overdue and my placenta was damaged
The midwife looking after me said my placenta was so damaged she had not seen anything like it in all the years she had been a midwife and agreed with me that my daughter was 4 weeks overdue but the hospital wouldn’t listen to her or me, said it wasn’t possible.But my placenta proved she was.
I didn’t come around till 6 hours after I delivered her so I missed everything. The hospital left her naked in a tub, my husband picked her up as she had wee and poo on her and they told him off because they were too busy to sort her out and moaned when he tried too, stupid rules if you ask me leaving a newborn baby naked to get cold and mess on herself. In fact, it’s unthinkable all because they were too busy to tend to her.
At least she is safe now and at home with us where I am loving mommyhood and I can’t imagine my life without her.
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