A blog reader writes in today with a problem that we don’t see talked about much, orgasms.
We all enjoy them, but are not so happy to talk about them, it’s a secret taboo.
“An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away” – Mary West
But what happens when you can’t have one and have no idea what one even feels like?
I can’t orgasm confesses one mother today
I am in my early twenties and I’ve been with the same man for almost a decade. In that decade we’ve had break-ups, other significant others, and a child for me (he of course is not the father and he knows).
But in all these years I’ve come to realize that I’ve never had the big”O”.
I can’t orgasm, at all.
I never had one with my other three relationships either but still, I know that I’m young but it bothers me to my core.
He gets his but I don’t get mine.
I’ve been told to talk to my gynecologist but he’s a man and I’m way too embarrassed to say anything.
I feel less of a woman for this matter because I don’t get the satisfaction that all my friends talk about.
Do I enjoy it – yes
Do I want it – yes
So where is the problem?
I can’t orgasm and its so frustrating.
This is a mind-boggling situation to say the least, can anyone help me?