I am 21 years old and I’m from the Philippines. My best friend shared with me a link from your blog on How to Punish a Cheating Boyfriend. I have just read the article today and I found it interesting and really makes sense especially in my situation.
I’ve been hurt twice and it hurts so badly.
I just had another breakup last Saturday.
I was cheated, cheated in the sense that my boyfriends left me, when all I did was to love them and please them.
I just had my first boyfriend last year. We were so happy for the next 7 months. But right after that everything changed. He changed. He then forgets to send me text messages, even leave messages on Facebook, fails to communicate, etc.
I was so hurt and thought that I felt I was just taken for granted.
So I decided to let go of the rope thinking he might need sometime for himself. But two days after our breakup, he courted another girl. And this girl was once a reason of our fights before, it’s because I really have this instinct that this girl is into my boyfriend.
But at that time my boyfriend just tells that she was just a friend.
This breakup is killing me
But how come just after our breakup, how come he went to that girl when he is supposed to hurt?
I thought Emma that he’ll come back to me and apologize and ask for a second chance…but he didn’t.
I was so shocked with what happened. And just recently, saw his Facebook with sweet and loving words about their relationship.
It was so hard moving on with my first boyfriend. After a couple of weeks, another guy showed interest in me. I admit, he really helped me move on. He was this cool guy who is so nice and understanding, way better than my first boyfriend.
I fell for him and I thought he was the one. So after a month of courtship, I finally decided to commit a relationship with him just last 2nd of this month. But again another mistake happened. He decided to end our relationship just last Saturday.
I was really shocked and couldn’t believe it. We we’re so happy with each other. He wants to focus on his studies and other stuffs so he has no time for me anymore. I wanted to slap him in the face and yell at him. But I can’t do anything now.
I already begged him to stay but he has lots of excuses. I cried so hard for two nights, and I think I’m getting used with the pain so it’s not that very painful anymore.
I don’t think I deserve this
I did my best in every relationship. I loved them so much that I sometimes set aside myself. I prioritized them but they only made me a second option, just next to their personal desires.
I’m sharing this with you Emma because I know you could give me lots of encouragement. I know my experience is just an inch compared to yours.
But I’m afraid these things might affect my perspective in the future.
But I know in myself that I can do better than this.
I deserve more than this, but this breakup is killing me.
That something big in the future awaits me. I just need to increase my self-esteem and keep believing.
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